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Depression is real

IT WAS NEVER LOVE. In light of the unfortunate circumstance in which a young man Cold bloodedly murdered his "lover" and subsequently committed suicide, Id like us to ponder on it. WHAT COULD IT BE? Zambian youths are highly affected by mental disorders such that we have slowly started embracing abnormalities. A relationship is built on characters of 2 individuals however they may individually suffer from Personality disorders and lets focus on these disorders that may push someone to such lengths. 1)OBSESSIVE LOVE DISORDER. Love is "Potent" feeling that causes a release of powerful chemicals like Dopamine in your brain. For some people these feelings become so powerful that they become obsessed and start controlling their partners. NOTE! ★One moment they are worshiping you ★Another moment they are violent and controlling ★ In some cases of obsessive love, there may be “splitting.” This occurs when the person sees the object of their love as perfect one moment and evil the next. ★People with Obsessive love REFUSE breakup. 2) BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER! These individuals have problems managing their emotions and fear abandonment. NOTE! ★They cant picture life alone ★They view situations in black and white and often act on impulse ★They may be possessive and abusive. 3)ATTACHMENT DISORDER! People who barely got love from childhood tend to creat an abnormal attachment to their lovers NOTE! ★They can do anything to keep the relationship ★They are abusive,insecure and desperate to keep their partners. GENERAL SIGNS FOR UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS: ★Extreme attempts to control the other person ★Threatening the other person if they leave. ★Not listening to the other persons needs. CONCLUSION. Dont ignorantly say "vama love you can die" its your definition of love that needs to be changed. LOVE IS: • Love is patient,love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud and not anger. Arthur Elias
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