I know parenting is hard or can be hard sometimes, I mean like how to control or train your children that they may become better people in the future.
So here are the stages and steps to put in place when growing infant to teenagers. You should take these steps seriously and considerably
Step #1
From zero to 5 years :Teach to them, when I say teach to them I mean mannars, behavior, and morales. You know why this is important because foundation is really important in everything we do.
This is the stage you teach them how to greet people /visitors,
how to eat, no talking with food in the mouth, sitting down properly when eating and respecting the food.
how to behave in church and in family gatherings and how to sit on the couch no run around the house.
Step #2
From 5 to 10 years: Discipline them, disciplining a child is very important because one day you will be proud of the person he/she will become. This is one of the most important things to do when the child has started understanding things and life.
Step #3
From 10 to 20: Coach to them, now that they have understood a little bit more of life. This is the time now you should coach them, how to leave it and survive because life is all about survival, many teenagers they lost lives in this stage trying to make it. Coach them to be best players in the world full of opportunities. They should be humble, they should know how to choose friends, they should know how to make their own decisions, they should know how to start their own businesses and they should be able to stand up on their own.
Step #4
From 20 and above: Be their friends, because at this age that's when they really need genuine friends and family. So as parents you have to be friendly, caring and trustworthy and be honest with them tell them what is really good and important. Do this to avoid them to have bad company and getting the wrong advice from the wrong friends.
Follow this steps and see the type of a child you are going to raise. But the most important thing is that you have to teach them the religious way of life.
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